Showing posts with label alcoholics anonymous. Show all posts
Showing posts with label alcoholics anonymous. Show all posts

Thursday, September 6, 2007

Asking for help is not a sign of weakness

If you have a drinking, smoking or drugs problem, please ask for help- from your family, friends, teachers, anyone. It is not a sign of weakness, asking for help. Instead, it shows how strong you really are from inside. It takes a brave man(or woman) to seek support.

You can find the locations for AA meetings here:

http://www.aagsoindia.org/location.htm

Alternatively, you can call one of these helplines:

  • National Addiction Research Centre (NARC), Mumbai
    (022) 65834605

  • T.T. Ranganathan Clinical Research Foundation (TTK Hospital), Chennai
    (044) 24918461 / 2948

  • NIMHANS De-Addiction Centre, Bangalore
    (080) 26995360

  • Hope Trust, Hyderabad
    (040) 23396339 / 23327973

  • National Institute of Behavioural Sciences (NIBS), Kolkata
    (033) 22469662 / 22865203

  • AIIMS De-Addiction Centre, Gurgaon
    (0124) 2788974 / 8
Or, check out these sites. These also have a lot of information:



You know, when I found this information, I thought about how different our lives would have been if I had found it sooner. Then I thought- would I have had the guts to tell him that he needed expert help? You see, I was a bit scared of him. He was much older than me, he was my senior, like an older brother and his friends told me he could have one hell of a temper. He never got angry with me, but still I was damn scared of annoying him. Moreover, if I ever dared bring up the topic of smoking or drinking in his presence, he would give us a look that said that I had crossed some unknown boundary, and I would shut up immediately. He wanted to give it up himself, but he didn't like to talk about it.

It is only now that I realize that I shouldn't have shut up, that I should've risked his anger. All of us should have.

Guys, don't make the mistake we made.Trust me, you don't wanna go about feeling somehow responsible for your best mate's death, or ruin.



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